Findom terms glossary
New to findom? The scene has its own vocabulary. Here is a plain-language glossary of the words you will run into most often, from paypig to wallet drain. For the roles in more depth, see what is a paypig?
Findom
Short for financial domination, a consensual kink where money or control of it is handed from a submissive to a dominant as the core act of a power exchange.
Financial domination
The full name for findom. The erotic charge comes from the transfer of money and control, not from anything the money buys.
Findomme
A female financial dominant who receives tributes and directs the dynamic. Also styled findom, money mistress, or goddess.
Findom (dominant)
The dominant in a findom dynamic, of any gender. May also be called a money master, cash master, or wallet dominant.
Paypig
The submissive who gets pleasure from giving money away and being financially controlled. Worn as a badge inside the community, not an insult.
Cash slave / money slave
Other common names for the submissive, emphasising service and obedience through money.
Finsub
A financial submissive, another word for paypig.
Tribute
Money sent to a dominant as an act of devotion or submission. Can be a one-off, a recurring allowance, or earned through a task.
Drain / wallet drain
A session or game built entirely around the submissive sending money, often escalating, until they feel emptied out.
Findom game
A structured way to send tributes, such as dice rolls, wheels, or countdowns, that turns paying into play.
Wishlist
A public list of items a dominant wants; paypigs buy from it as a form of tribute.
Catfish / fake
A scammer posing as a dominant to extract money with no real dynamic. Vet accounts and use platforms built for this.
Hard limit
A boundary that must never be crossed, agreed before play. Real limits are respected on both sides.
Aftercare
Checking in and reassuring each other after an intense session, so both people feel safe and grounded.
Bid
On FinBid, a payment that is added to a handle's running total to push it up the leaderboard.
Putting it together on FinBid
On FinBid, fans and paypigs place bids on a creator's X handle, and every bid is added to that handle's total to push it up one global board. See how the bid leaderboard works.
FinBid is an adults-only (18+) platform. This is general information, not financial advice.